Was at MC this week and a discussion took place that led her to the brink of confessing the A. The MC thinks that if we had another 45 minutes (this happened in the last 10 minutes and there was a following appointment with another couple), she would have broken down and self-exposed. She was clearly pained and confused and starting to make self-blaming comments ("maybe I am the one who is broken...") and remorse.
He thinks that the next session or 2 will be the turning point for her.
When the W has confessed the affair without being outed, what has been the outcome for others here?
Are they more likely to want to work on the M and R or if they are still stuck in the MLC, do I always have to look out for another EA/PA? The MC thinks that of she self-exposes, I will have more "leverage" in the outcome and will be more likely to repair the M and get more interest from W for repair of the R.
