The only thing I can think of that would make her talk is for something to trigger in her that would make her want to try again in the marriage. I don't think her seeing me 50lbs lighter will help - although I hope it won't hurt either. I was doing so well. I was G'ingAL and staying focused and then I received the divorce papers and that was it for me. I started spiraling out of control. I know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. What hurts so much is thinking that this divorce could go through without us talking or trying to at least fight to save this marriage. It just doesn't seem right...