Sunny, She says the part about me having a naive/unrealistic view of what marriage is without refering to the fact that she is sleeping with someone else, but it is obviously implied that I should accept an "open" marriage and move on with life.
She is that out of touch, but I certainly did not help the situation out by tolerating a completely disfunctional marriage for so many years. She has convinced herself that I have no feelings and that I am a self-absorbed, arrogant SOB. In fact, we just had horrible communications and conflict resolution in our M!
I definitely won't make these same mistakes in my future Rs...at least something good is coming out of the sitch!
Thanks for the support, SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread