FLTC,
Thanks for the vote of confidence!

Sunny,
She says the part about me having a naive/unrealistic view of what marriage is without refering to the fact that she is sleeping with someone else, but it is obviously implied that I should accept an "open" marriage and move on with life.

She is that out of touch, but I certainly did not help the situation out by tolerating a completely disfunctional marriage for so many years. She has convinced herself that I have no feelings and that I am a self-absorbed, arrogant SOB. In fact, we just had horrible communications and conflict resolution in our M!

I definitely won't make these same mistakes in my future Rs...at least something good is coming out of the sitch!

Thanks for the support, SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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