Hope, I don't know why I feel like I want you to cleanse the house but I do so I am glad you are willing to try it. Something about his mood swings being so dramatic tells me that there could be a little more than meets the eye. So it can't hurt to cleanse. Too bad we can't cleanse them (they would never let us). But getting the house clean will help you both.
So tell me how did you come about the house? You can post on my sitch if you feel like you don't want to put the long story here.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.