I do find it interesting that H would allow me to write up the agreement and sign it without getting his own lawyer. WTF? He is the one who wants this to happen...
Dan's not stupid...he just wants out quickly..he's running like a madman..BBJ..ya know I'm not going to tell you waht to do..but in my sitch when Kim said she wanted this, then Kim had to do the work to get it. I never initiated, never stopped it, never hurried it. I just let it move at it's own pace. I had no desire to help her destroy our family. Ours is still not done..it will be shortly but I still do nothing to hurry it even though I don't want her back. I do nothing to slow it either..I just let it progress..Dan and Kim should have to see, feel and live through this as we do. It should not be done for them but as adults you and I should not cause them any more pain or suffering than what they put on themselves.
