Hello, I am glad you are better, but I am a little worried about MWG she has not been in here since yesterday morning.I hope she is ok.I know is is working now and she must be tired.have you hesrd from her???? Just wondering.God bless you
M-53 H-46 M-24+YRS BOMB-10/14/07 2-S 2-D Grandkids-7 Greatgrand kid-1 He needs space... Wants to start fresh new life W O/W Moved in his O/W Oct.08
yep I remember that song... didn't like it, just because of the lyrics...made me so sad at first.
compassion for the ow, yes, I too have it, but the 'evil' in me, just thinks...what goes around, comes around..
You know, there are two sides, yes. But I have finally realized that I was not a bad person. I was loving and caring, yet I truly didn't see some things I did 'wrong'...it's ok though, it was never on purpose, and I know in my heart that I wanted to try to save our marriage, but I didn't get that chance.
Love you MMF, you're such a great guy !
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Hello, I am glad you are better, but I am a little worried about MWG she has not been in here since yesterday morning.I hope she is ok.I know is is working now and she must be tired.have you hesrd from her???? Just wondering.God bless you
Nope I haven't and have missed her too... I hope she's ok ! xxx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
What a beautiful thread....and I'm not surprised! You have shown amazing strength throughout your trials. I wanted to pray that God bless you richly beyond your wildest dreams....but, you know what?....you ARE being blessed....and you are blessing US with your peace and patience and love for your H! The restoration of your marriage will come in God's perfect timing! I'm praising God tonight for the way that He has strengthened you throughout these last 2 years! I miss "chatting" with you! Night-night, sweet Cinders!
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today
There you are !!! As always as if God sent you to me at the right time !
It was a joy to see your name on my thread, and thank you so much for wishing such good upon me. I do feel blessed in many ways ! I know my marriage hasn't been restored and it may never get to that point, but I also know now that I truly love my H unconditionally and that life has given many things to be thankful for ! It's like the song says...
" At first I was afraid, I was petrified...kept thinking I could never live without you by my side....and I grew strong !"
I feel the life has been ignited in me once again ! It feels glorious ! Truly it does.
I so miss our chatting too ! I remember how much your posts always meant to me, and how blessed I felt everytime you came by my thread ! I hope you too are happy and feel blessed, for you deserve the very best ! You are a man of honor !
Take care !!! And much love to you !!! xxx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
I also know now that I truly love my H unconditionally and that life has given many things to be thankful for!
((((Cinders)))),
What a beautiful summary of what this DBing thing is all about! If we could bottle this "attitude" up and sell it, we would be Trillionaires (in this economy millions and billions don't mean much)...LOL! The unconditional love that you have found I believe is the missing key to so many marriages that DON'T make it to reconciliation. As you have said so clearly, we can only control OUR actions....it's up to God and our spouses to manage theirs. Thanks for being such an encouragement to so many here (me included)!
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today
I have had people ask me if I am hoping for reconciliation in my marriage. I usually don't know how to answer them because I do have hope but I don't know exactly how He will work things out for the best.
I think that one shouldn't have hope in their spouse or in their marriage but in Him. So, yes I do have hope.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
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