I love hearing about your MC sessons. I wish my W would go. I feel she is at the same exact spot your W is at and would say the same stuff if she would just go.
Mike, you are right it is very difficult to DB while in the same house, sleeping in the same bed. Both our W's see the changes in us but are unsure. I was just thinking the other night what is probably my W's biggest concern is if she does recommit to the M that it will all go back to the way it was so she just lets it sit in limbo torn between what she wants and hopes will continue and what she is afraid will happen and she will get hurt again.
Steady your W all but said this in MC. So damn much alike our sitches are. I cannot help my W with this and neither can you, its frustrating but not much we can do.
