FIB - in the courthouse? speeding ticket? \:\) Just trying to add a little humor to your ohsoserious life/thread.

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Believe it or not, the "offending spouse" often has as much mistrust of the LBS as the other way 'round. It's either a vicious spin downward...or upward if one spouse decides to stop it.
Oh yes, I agree. My H told me often in the beginning the he did not trust me. Whether he had reason or it was a his own reflection, it was his feeling that he could not trust me and I have to honor that - and, work on regaining his trust in me. Pretty ironic when he is the one.....

FIB, is your W a different person/W/mother now than she was a year ago, 2 years ago?

Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.