H is also upset that I don't want to co-sign. He says he will not be able to buy a place without my help and if he waits to buy a house after the D is in the works it is very hard to get a home loan while in the midst of a D and splitting up assets. He said he will have to sell off cows/tractor/truck or cash out his 401 K to get a house if I don't help him. I told him that was a choice he was making when he decided to end the marriage...He said he would just get a small 2 bedroom rental in town then. I said that those were crappy and I would not want my children living there with him....
I am pretty sure the bloom is off the rose for H. I said, "Did you think a D would be fun, easy, or convenient?" _________________________
not your problems...they are his. Let him come to terms with all this and the fall out..
I can't offer anything from a biblical standpoint BBJ..
I can say I'm proud of you..I know it's hard but your standing up..at imes like these it's hard to do that..
