That was one of the hard things for me was not calling him at work. I have made it easier on myself by saying that I am not going to call him because he might be with OW. When he is with me he doesn't answer when OW calls, so I don't want him to do that for her if I were to call when he was with her.
I try not to persue H, but it is hard as he still lives at home, and we sleep in the same bed. I get mad, but I just try not to let him know.
It isn't easy, but the friends I have made here have made it possible for me to survive!!!
