Ah, the ML trigger. So sorry (((1hope))). Remember that he is angry at himself for enjoying you and your body even though he tells you that he can't stand it. He is as confused as ever and he is angry about not being in control of himself.
When H spews his verbal abuse can you just calmly respond and say 'I will not take your tongue lashings' and walk away? Don't fuel him by listening or giving any response.
Get on the high road and stay on it. Follow thru with those plans to visit your H's worksite today. Take him a tasty sandwich made of crunchy peanut butter. Add humor if you think it will work and also leave a note saying that you are looking forward to more smooth spots than all the bumps but he plans the route!
kelaaron, sage eliminates negative vibes? does that count for sagebrush too? My H loves the smell of sagebrush!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
