Just heard from my L. He sent a letter to her L (unknown to me) indicating that she will need to account for some $$ she took out of a savings account via certified cheque. He also said that he hopes "she has not tyaken matters into her own hands".
FRICK - she will be LIVID!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh well, I did not know this was going out! Can blame the L.
Originally Posted By: kat727
Don't blame the man, shake his hand for fighting for you. I doubt that he has even taken his gloves off yet!
kat
Kat, I know. I will not blame him to his face. I know whose side he is working for! I can blame if IF W gets full of steam towards me...
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
What does he mean, "take matters into her own hands"???
PDT, I think he is getting at he hopes she hasn't decided to try and arrange things (re assets) as she sees fit. More of a warning shot across the bow than a shot meant to injure! Or, to stick with baseball, a brush back!
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
Always put the blame on the L. Sometimes it is better to act in ignorance even if you know what is going on. Works really well when you don't. Livid is not bad, apathy is worse. Just maintain your high road.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
OK, WHY DO I LET MYSELF DO THIS???????????????????????
W calls from holidays. Talks to K's. I expect no word from her so I start to head to another room. S13 calls and asks if I am able to talk to mom. What can I do?
W: Hi. Do you know where the mail key is and which mailbox is ours?
Me: The key should be hanging there. I think it has the box # on it. I cannot remember.
W: OK. Is there anything I should go pay? Should I hook up the TV and internet?
Me: I did the tv from here.
W: When? Thanks for telling me.
Me: I did it when the friends were down (she said they could use the condo but she didn't mention to me - I found out from them directly)
W: What? oh, ok. Should we get the hockey package since you and S13 are coming and me and D16 will be here.
Me: You can check it out at Cox Communication...
W: I asked if you could do it. I have never done that. Geez.
Me: I can look at when I go online to pay the bill. Gotta run. See ya.
She then texts me asking why internet not working. Like I am supposed to know from here. I say it should be. She then says no lights on modem. My temptation was to say "You think the big cord should be plugged into the wall then?" but I didn't. I was polite but sort of said the same. Have heard nothing which means it must be working...
If K's weren't in the room, I would not have taken the call... oh well.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
The same reason we all do or have done. The Mr. Nice Guy club. Let her figure out her own problems. Don't beat yourself up over helping her right now. I was a slow learner in the let her own her own problems category. Even the harda$$ PDT will tell you he is in the same club. Sooner or later things change. Take care of yourself and the K's.
Quote:
W: I asked if you could do it. I have never done that. Geez.
Funny how they don't need us, but expect us to fix the problems in their lives.
Last edited by yenko69; 10/23/0804:38 AM.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
54 I know that feeling. I still make a freakin pot every morning as well.
It is funny in a weird way (ironic maybe a better word) that there are so many similarities between WAS and LBS - even I'm something like the coffee given all the $hit our W have thrown our way.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
I wouldn't be too anxious to help her set up anything that she's going to use to communicate with OM. If your kids also need internet there, that's one thing, but I would lift NOT A FINGER to help her otherwise on this issue.
Might've been very useful to have had a keylogger on that computer there.
I can blame if IF W gets full of steam towards me... 
My temptation was to say "You think the big cord should be plugged into the wall then?" 
but I didn't. I was polite but sort of said the same. Have heard nothing which means it must be working...