So we had a good dialogue last night about keeping secrets...now I remember why doing dialogue is so important! I really gets us to talk and open up, and it’s what is needed right now. H was really open and said he realized that keeping secrets will destroy us, that between us there can be no secrets. He said his C gave him a good tool, a very simple one, but for him he says its something he should have thought of long ago, and this is if he is in a situation and he doesn’t know what to do then he should ask himself “what would limbo want me to do” and in doing that he has his answer. He really likes this C and a really wish I could see her to, but she won’t as she feels it’s a conflict! H also said that he was very honest with her, and told her the truth, he said she said that we handled this last situation with the ow well and no more contact, she also said that she (from what H has told her) is a master manipulator, and she(c) believes that we have not heard the last of the ow! Which in my gut I had kinda figured! But she said we are not to respond, as it shifts power back to her! And I sure as hell don’t want to do that! But it went well, no yelling, or getting upset, we just talked and didn’t dwell on it for very long! So baby steps in the right direction!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
