Is this a mid-life crisis?

[kelaaron]

I second Dawn. This board has been a God send. Also one person can make a difference. Even if it is as simple as making yourself feel better.

Don't discount A. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but my H too has said he is not ready for R. Although I don't know if there is OW in the physical sense, I do know that there is/was someone he considered a "friend". Unfortunately, this friend has not given H good advice as to working through his problems, she has encouraged him to do what he wants. Maybe if I was in his shoes I would think that is good advice but....

You are still very new at this and very hurt. It will get better and it will get worse. Post, read, learn, and be forthcoming here about your feelings, confusion, and thoughts before you act on them.

People will come and talk to you. They will. I have made some very good friends on here and we laugh and cry together. We share recipies and believe it or not they have really become a part of my life in the sense of friends. And Dawn with all of her personal confusion, is very wise.