God grant me the patience and the strength...8

[theotherhalf]

Be harsh Andabelle, I need it and appreciate it.

Is what you are doing now bringing you any closer to reconciling with your H?

I don't know...good question? Here everyone says no, others in my life say no, but in my gut?...
He is coming around more. We seem to be connecting again some. He stays over frequently. He hasn't mentioned D in a long time. I see he's missing home. I see he's missing me. He's intiating contact. So I can't say it's NOT working. But I don't know that it is either.

You don't seem to grasp that letting go is not the same as giving up.

I understand that that is how it is defined here. In my sitch I am afraid that it is the same.