Thanks for sharing this with me. It takes a lot of work to change your thought process, but it is CRITICAL to do so.
*HUGS
How did you recognize the patterns at first ??
Hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.