YOU ARE NOT A DISAPPOINTMENT! If anything, you acted out everyone of our fantasy's re OW!. AGHHH! It was entertaining reading. But seriously, I know D is hurt by all this but I am proud of her to bravely confront her father. If we cant open their eyes, maybe the kids will. I do encourage my kids to respect their father, but I also encourage them to say how they feel. They'll be stronger for it. I think your D is coming a long way. I just wish mine could open up more.