WAW Won't Communicate At All

[cotoffgard]

Well, hopefully you're not "doing nothing" and are doing your best to work out your issues and GAL'ing like crazy. How you feel is what she'll see at the hearing, so try your best to dispel as much of the negativity as possible.

BTW, DAM = Dumb @ss Man/Male

"Any advice on how to cope with all of the good thoughts (memories) that keep flooding my mind? I've been doing nothing but sobbing for the last 4 days. I saw my neighbor tonight and she told me that when she saw my W a couple of weeks ago, she had told her that she loves me so much????"

First of all, I wouldn't believe anything she says, and especially anything you heard through a 3rd party. What to do with the good thoughts? Keep them. They remind you of what you're fighting for. What you're probably more obsessed with right now is the inability to make more good memories with her. I've never found a magic pill to stop that feeling, but I try to make my own happy memories, ones that are not contingent upon my W. It gets easier the more you accept the fact that only you can make yourself happy.