Moving her from Newbees

[Clayton]

Hi COG,

Nothing new here.

Went out with W last Friday for dinner and drinks. i'm definetly in the friendzone here. Nothing romantic at all.

I think I will feel better if I saw her less and stepped right back out of the picture.
I'm off for a month long vacation in about 2 weeks...so that will give me a big break from the situation.

I'm pretty sure that when I come back she will want to start to talk about splitting up our finances..etc.

I've pretty much come to the conclusion that this is not going to be a reconciliation as she is showing absolutely no sign of wanting to reconnect with me on an emotional level in any way.

Oh well.....I'm just trying to totally detach from her (pretty successful so far), so I won't get hurt when that conversation comes up.

I just don't understand how people don't take their marrage vows seriously. I thought when you got married, you became a family...and families dont abandon each other when times get tough.

In my case....it's definetly her loss.