Yenko, I'm not up fully on your sitch. I've read a little. Your wife, is the first time that you've split.
The reason I ask is because my W has had multiple A's and we've split twice. I'm just know that if she comes back and wants in; I'm going to be very skeptical. I guess I'm just fishing for "are you sure that she's serious and not just coming back for safety and security?"
Forgive me for lacking full knowledge of your sitch.