For the Guy with Kids and a WW Dix-Sept

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I'll make plans to see the movie. Maybe next weekend.

No texts or anything to the wife today. We spoke today when she called the kids tonight while we were eating. She reminded D11 to call her before going to bed. D11 did and had to leave a VM because she didn't answer her cell. The wife called back about 10 minutes later and I again just answered and got the phone to D11.

I have ALL my kids tonight and the same tomorrow, as usual. With my pull back from her and me having the kids, I'm sure gives her the opportunity for some good "quality time" with OM. No kids to deal with.

We'll see what he attempts to leave behind this time.

I almost forwarded her an inspirational email that Y sent to me, but I decided against it. Gonna try to see how long I can keep up this pull back. Your right Beej, I don't think I want to fall into the friend catagory just yet.

I can't believe that for someone that wanted out of our marriage so bad, why hasn't she filed anything? I'm SURE OM would pay for it. Hell, if it were me, I would. But then again, he is still married too as far as I know. She even brought up one night how we could do the paperwork ourselves and save a ton. I didn't disagree with her. I posed that question to her aunt the other day. She said it was probably because of the cost involved. I'm just not sure.

I wonder what they discuss. I wonder what he tells her. I wonder what she tells him.

It's only natural to wonder, I think. As long as I don't obsess about it. I'm past that now, anyway.