Hey Spitty , still haven't spotted that cool car tooling around 270, but one of these days ... Yes, it does take some time. Seems I bounced back last couple weeks when I heard x2 left town, couple folks asked me where she went. I "have no idea", that's what I told them, and I don't, and realized I didn't care. Does take time, and all former Rs are different./ Did spend an hour on the phone with x1 this evening, and that was just fine in contrast. Careful around those hormonal things. Those did my x2 in.