You think I am moving fast now? I don't know what we will decide but the lawyer said if we both agree to terms we could be divorced before Thanksgiving. John, that is the American Thanksgiving
I am tired of fighting, if H wants out he can go. But I will make sure the kids and I have all we need. I am just not going to be the vindictive wench who tries to bleed her husband dry as payback for leaving. That would reflect worse on me than on him...