FB2 I have heard many of the men here complain about their 401ks being drained, assets liquidated, etc because of greedy WAWs. I am the LBS and I am not greedy, I know you aren't saying that, but I feel guilty at the thought of my H losing these things b/c of a D. I know that makes me weak to a lot of people, I just dont want to become a greedy manipulative B!TCH or I am no better than people like H's former ow.
