Amen, Winnie! I love your analogy! My H has all those symptoms, and I have even noticed his mood goes south when he talks about his work, school, anything having to do with his world. Part of the depressed feelings I guess.
I'm going to save your post to remind me of the difference btw their relationship and a true relationship:)
Me:33, H:34 T10, M8 S4,S3,S9m ILYBINILWY 11/07 Separation 1 2/08-8/08 Back Home 8/08-10/08 Separation 2 10/08- Too many bombs to count:(