Amen, Winnie! I love your analogy! My H has all those symptoms, and I have even noticed his mood goes south when he talks about his work, school, anything having to do with his world. Part of the depressed feelings I guess.

I'm going to save your post to remind me of the difference btw their relationship and a true relationship:)


Me:33, H:34
T10, M8
S4,S3,S9m
ILYBINILWY 11/07
Separation 1 2/08-8/08
Back Home 8/08-10/08
Separation 2 10/08-
Too many bombs to count:(