gosh you are nicer than I think I could be and it breaks my heart to hear what your D said.... I am struggling this week of how all this will effect my girls.... and how I'm going to handle it if it goes down the D path of not getting them every weekend and having to share that and holidays... not sure right now if I will even be able to handle this without medicating myself... but day by day right now...
What does your W say when you share that your kids don't want to be around OM? or that you don't like it? I know I'm probably about to be faced with this sooner than I think... I will die when he bring OW around my kids... but maybe they are all so selfish and sick that they just don't see it...
Love that she is quiting her job... lovely!!! hope OM is in for the ride ... I wonder if he knows that she has had 2 other A's before... why would he want to stick around... I find this still to be so temporary... I don't know... or they are just as sick.
H called tonight I handed phone straight to D and I guess he asked to talk to me ... I had nothing to say to him... he tried to get me to talk and I just sat there... and then cut him off... not rude just very matter fact.. I can't go there now... Last resort technique for now at least.. until my anger and hurt lift a little.
hang in there - always thinking and praying for you.
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
