Mixed Signals or Just My Imagination ?

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So, W has gotten financial info, called me, but wasn't freaking out. The other night she was saying how it wasn't fair that there was no more $$$ after I paid the common expenses.

I had also e-mailed her with about 3-4 ideas on how she could come up with extra $$$ to cover her expenses, including offering to pay 1/2 of afterschool (though she had been planning to pay for it all previously).

So, for now, I feel like I dodged the bullet. I always seem to be the bad guy lately.

I also 'dropped the rope' in one of the e-mails. Basically said I didn't see how this R could work out, etc. I am also going dark, but I will help her if asked. Only, I will not hang out at her place after doing whatever I need to do.

Is this the way I should handle this ?

Though b4 she would have loved to have the attention, it seems she gets irritated by my presence if I am around her too long.

Or if I try to help too much.

So I feel like my absence is what is needed now.