1. Being grateful to have her as a friend and more observant of our maturity. Appreciating how much better it feels to be real with her then merely settling for unbelievable sex. (okay I still need to work on this one)
2. Giving each of us enough credit, and believing in our friendship enough that now we both know that even our disagreements can serve our children. I will simply continue to have more and more respect and appreciation for the mother of my children, continue giving her options and sharing my views when appropriate, relating to her at whatever level she desires while holding me and our kids to the highest possible standards.
