what makes piecing difficult for you?

[StrongEnough]

Yes, thanks JJ. Lots of good readin here!

From what I have read here, the things that piecing difficult for me are a little different, although most of them stem from me:

1) Not being totally sure the I even want to be with H.
2) Holding on to the "good times" I had when seperated.
3) Looking at him as the man he was when he left his wife and kids at the drop of a dime.
4) To go with #3 not giving H credit for the things he has changed.

Positive things:
1) I am much more level-headed when it comes to situations that cause disagreement. I don't fly off the handle anymore.
2) I try to be more compassionate for H and try hard to understand his side of things.
3) H and I have a good friendship.

Things to work on:

Way too many to list.

~SE