I think that since my sitch involves so much infidelity on her part that I am going to start a thread here before my thread in Newcomer's locks. Here are the links to my previous threads:
Brief overview, My W is a recovering alcoholic that attempted suicide before rehab. She's had multiple OMs before, during, and after rehab.
Briefly separated in April after one A. Had 3 OMs in Sept. On Sept. 15 she said that she wanted out. I let her go. Only she hasn't exactly left. She's been coming and going as she sees fit. I have seen a L and am ready to put him on retainer after I clear out financial issues to include a most likely BK filing. She still plans on moving out; but I doubt it.