That you're kids are old enough to understand that Mommy and Daddy are planning on living two separate lives
That you worked so hard to save your marriage.....but, have no strength to continue that fight
That your wife probably sees you as the walk-away-husband
That you and your W cannot see your woundedness clearly now (you will later)
That each of you sees the other as the source of their pain
That some here encourage D as the answer and seem to believe it is the strongest move
I am happy that....
One way or another your pain will subside
Underneath all the pain is an ember of love that you and your W share
You are doing everything you can to show your W forgiveness and love
You find the strength every day to be the incredible father your kids need
There is ALWAYS hope that you and your W will reconcile and experience the glorious love that God intended a marriage to deliver
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today
