Quote: Is it really a bad thing if I ask him about it? Or do I have to hold it in and try something else?
whether or not it's a "really bad thing" for you to ask him about it depends on past experience with him. When you've asked about things in the past what has been his reaction?
trying something else really wouldn't be "holding it in" now would it?! what would happen if intsead of waiting for him to give you a morning kiss or a spoon at night you went ahead and intiated?