I'll tell you want makes piecing difficult for me--ME! I am about to come apart at the seams today. For a few days now I have been bothered by what I perceive to be my H keeping his distance from me. Generally, things are going pretty good. We spent time together and talk but I feel he has put up a wall and won't let me in. Before we separated we always kissed good bye in the morning, sometimes at night he would come over and "spoon" for awhile. Just little things like that. They seem to be gone right now. Even though he wanted us to get back together and made the move, he doesn't want to be bothered in the morning anymore and he never touches me in bed or really any other time unless it is to ML. Why? I want to ask him but I am fighting with myself over it. I don't know if he is afraid of me, like I might go back to the old stuff if he lets me in--or if he just doesn't feel like he thought he did. I'm scared and confused and trying to keep my hand off the phone. I could sure use some suggestions. Is it really a bad thing if I ask him about it? Or do I have to hold it in and try something else?
