it is difficult to piece when you aren't exactly sure what's different.
goals are one way to determine things are "better" but what if they weren't horrible to begin with?
I don't really have an answer for that other than to stress the importance of contiued goals and the assesment of goals but NOT to the point of obsession.
I chose the route of focusing on the positive and expanding it rather than pushing (or setting goals) for what I want vs being happy and content with getting what I need.
LL who's going through some things now that have little to do with marriage and just more to do with life that are distracting me, plus I just needed a break from the bb.
