Or just reply to him:

"I agree that this is all very difficult. Best to let our attornerys go thru ALL of our financial stuff, and work out something that's fair and agreeable to all concerned."

Those dinners out and gifts for OW and such aren't going to look too good in his disclosures.

What I'm saying is, this is all going to come out, and be WORKED out, anyway. There's no sense getting all upset about it, on the one hand, or fretting that he's somehow "getting away with something" on the other hand, Karen.

Puppy