I think you would be better served if you just didn't get into e-mail wars with him. Let it go through the lawyers. I know that probably sounds awful to you but there really isn't any need for him to try to bully you into his point of view.
Yes, I am sure that will raise the L's bill but this is what he wanted , it is the cost of divorce.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory