I should have gone back and found all of those other posts! kat
Don't you dare!!! I was such a mess back then!!! Honestly, I feel like a different person now. I was so weak, wimpy, depressed. Yuck!!!
And of course if I had been here the first part of December, it would have been even worse. I joined here almost a month later!!!
Had email wars again with H. He's trying to use his inverted logic like why he didn't/can't afford for us to have heat, gas has gotten more expensive, utilities would be cheaper if I was renting (if we got a really tiny apt. maybe), and then he said twice to me how I just don't care about the $$!!!! WTH???? I realized I was running down cheeseless tunnels trying to explain to him that our electric has gone up also!!! Our bills aren't any cheaper b/c we've been using tiny space heaters, which btw are probably a huge fire hazard in 100 year old house!!!
I just said I do care, that's why we eat spaghetti, hot dogs, and hamburgers 3 of my least favorite foods, I've cut the utilities we use in half, and I'm looking for a part-time job even though I don't have the time to actually do that plus the other stuff I need to do!!!! I DID NOT put in about how he's had 3 or 4 vacations, eats out all the time (I never eat out!), hotel bills, pogo stick, etc, although I probably should have!!! And then I said, it's your decision if you want to fix the heater or not, just tell your L or my L you don't want to, and no hurt or hard feelings on my part. Then he emails back "well call for an estimate then". Karen
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