I honestly do not know what changed my H's mind. He went back & forth and back & forth so many times, my head was spinning. What HE told me was that the reason he changed his mind was b/c "he loved me." I guess he just all of a sudden miraculously realized this or something.

As some background, he never left the house during our D sitch b/c he was due to be deployed for a year. After he was gone, I actually rec'd a bill from a L and it seems he visited w/ this L about a month or less before he "changed his mind." I think maybe reality set in is what really happened.

So, we were "ok" for only about a month before he left for his year.

I think to see my old posts, you can click on my name & get to them. Otherwise I'll try to get them at the bottom of my post, but I'm not really quite sure how to do that.


Last edited by RedHeadWife; 10/22/08 07:27 PM.
Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10