Let him do it. You practice loving detachment. Let him figure it out. You pray, work on yourself, take care of your kids and be the best BBJ there is. I think you have the right mentality - two options and be prepared for both. You can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
