It's weird but it kind of feels 'mean' of me, to be going out to dinner with my inlaws and H, whilst ow is not invited, yet a part of H's life by now.
It is a most strange situation I must admit.
It is almost like your H has two lives.
I would imagine OW is not at all happy about it. (I know I wouldn’t be). But then when you have dalliances with other people’s husbands you do kind of deserve all you get.
So, nope, don’t waste energy on feeling sorry for her ..
Pity you can’t get her to babysit being as she is so keen to play mummy to your children..
Nutty x
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
