Ok ya'll! Here is the 1st prayer that I and my entire congregation began praying over my H it's powerful. Find some private time and pray this loud with BOLDNESS. Your going to be speaking and our words have power. The bible says that God gave all authority to man the earth and remember how did God create the world?....He spoke it into existence(Let there be light). Replace the name in the name spot. I have prayed this over him constantly. My thought are regardless of which way this ends up we should want our H's to be reconciled to God even if they are not with us for at least our children's sake. P.S. GAL and 180!

so here is is.....


Eph. 1:17-23
My Father in heaven I come to you in the name of your son Jesus Christ of Nazareth on behalf of [John A Doe] and I pray that you would give unto [John A Doe] a spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of God. That the eyes of [John A Doe]
understanding would be enlightened; That [John A Doe] would know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints, and what is the exceeding greatness of His power toward us who believe, according to the working of His mighty power, which he wrought in Christ, when He raised him from the dead, and set him at His own right hand, in heavenly places, far above all principality, and power, and might, and dominion, and every name that is named, not only in this world, but in that which is to come. And has put all things under his feet, and gave Him to be the head over all things to the church, which is His body, the fullness of Him that fills all in all.
Eph. 3:16-19
And Lord I ask that you would grant [John A Doe] according to the riches of your glory, that he/she might be strengthened with might by your spirit in his/her inner man; That Christ may dwell in [John A Doe]’s heart by faith; and that [John A Doe] being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height; and to know the love of Christ, which passes knowledge and that [John A Doe] might be filled with the fullness of God.
II Cor 4:4
I take authority over the blindness of the god of this world, and command you to release [John A Doe], and I pray that the light of the gospel of Christ, who is the image of God would shine on him.


Ok these are things I DECLARED OUT LOUD after I prayed over him. If you like it great and if you don't toss it out......

Father send your angels to (John A Doe). Father I ask you to visit and reveal your self and your will to (John A Doe) I declare that no one but Jesus is going to rule over (John A Doe).
I declare that (John A Doe) hears the voice of God and obeys the voice of God.
I Declare that (John A Doe) loves his wife and children with all his heart and all his soul. I declare that (John A Doe) is a man after God's heart.
Angels of the almighty God go to (John A Doe) right now in the name of Jesus and let there be no rest, peace, and satisfaction in the adulterous relationship between (John A Doe) and (adulteress name).
I command confusion and dissatisfaction to come upon the relationship between (John A Doe and adulteress name).

I command the seeds of deception that started the relationship between (John A Doe and adulteress name)to bear fruit. I command the deception that it born from consume that relationship. I declare dissatisfaction come upon all the sexual interactions between (John A Doe and adulteress name). I command the conviction of God to rule over the relationship between (John A Doe and adulteresses name) that every time they see each other let them see what was done to the families.
I speak reconciliation over (John A Doe). (John A Doe) be reconciled to your family, friend, church and to God.
Holy spirit open my H's spiritual eyes and ears. Holy Spirit go and do a deep cleansing in my H's heart. Heal every part of my H's heart they way only you can. Father I ask in the name of Jesus that you visit (John A Doe) in the night with dreams and speak to him in the day.


Ok that's a good start....


Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca