Lan - I think you're rather cleverly alluding to what you believe my own advice would be to Tostada!
Yep thats exactly what I was aiming at, a lot of us are great at giving advice when we see a specific situation but find it difficult to implement that advice to our own sitch.
You have all the strength, knowledge and wisdom to deal with your own sitch, it's just that the judgement gets clouded by emotion and the history you have with W.
