I'm with FLTC, it struck me that yuo really did completely let go and stopped contacting him altogether and even dated some new guy and THEN he comes back. Coincidence, or textbook scenario, I dont know. What was your IM chat about then, just an excuse to talk to you? Have you got any plans to meet up with your H again? And how you feeling about HG moving away in 2 weeks time? I guess you will miss him...
Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
So make one now Jon. What's stopping you? Did she take the mortar and pestle?
I have a great mottler for my shaker. Love mojitos!!! I'll have one too please.
Nope, I've still got the mortar and pestle. Nice to know what they're called, thanks! We bought it on a Thursday, and she left on Sunday, so it's painful. Dangit, who cares, I'm making a mojito!
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Jon - Make good memories with it to cancel out the bad ones!!!!!
FLTC - I have not completely closed the door for H. I am willing to see if things can be different with him going to C and all. But things need to happen slowly. I am letting him take the lead for now.
I will definitely miss HG. But there's not a lot there, and we can still e-mail, and I'm used to not seeing him often.
Okay, my friend is here to go to lunch. Gotta play with her kitty and get some food.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
This late shifts at work are really slowing me down. But I am feeling better. And I am tackling more of my to-do list today.
Brief convo with H yesterday in between lunch with my friend and work. Ironically, he wanted that friend's number since he lost it. LOL It was pretty funny.
((((((Everyone)))))))
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
I was checking what is going at your part of world... Good to see you are still sane cause some of us are finally giving up and lost some of our marbles already. At least I know I have... Love xx K
I will definitely miss HG. But there's not a lot there, and we can still e-mail, and I'm used to not seeing him often.
because it would be a bit pants if you were feeling upset/heartbroken over it, after having been hurt by your H in the past year, it wouldnt be nice to be hurt by someone else leaving. Phew! I agree with Kalni, we can always rely on you to have your head screwed on right! (I think mine is currently residing in an under stair cupboard somewhere).
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
No, I definitely am not heartbroken. It's not like we had some huge fight or I got dumped again. It's the circumstances of life. It just is what it is. And that's fine. It was fun, but now he's gone. *shrugs*
I am not sure I am the sane one! Just because I am not depressed and/or psychotic doesn't make me normal! LOL
Besides....crazy people are more fun!
Ali - Realized I never answered your question. Mostly when H is IMing me it's just chit chat. Sometimes he has a question, but mostly it starts with "hey, how are you doing?" kind of stuff.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
