Back to life, back to reality?

[optimistwife]

Oh ITH...

I am glad that he is a bit remorseful. I agree- stop apologizing for every move and action. I think the anger is a more real response, and shows you as a stronger person.

I also think that you NEED to take a break from all the IM and chatting! You two are addicted to eachother. It isn't good. Although I am delighted you are planning time together this weekend, the constant chatting will give you too many opportunities to backslide- especially given how shaken up you are inside right now.

I really think that you should take a 2 day break from almost all contact- maybe just a goodnight, and then rejoin eachother for your weekend 'date'. It will give both of you a chance to regroup and recover.

I don't think the way things are changing every hour is healthy for you.

And about his horrible e-mail- it is very common to hear that they are done, it will never work out, even though they love/care about us so much, and we should move on for our own good. Even though this is the first you have heard it in your R, I guarentee that the rest of us have heard it, sometimes multiple times along the way...