I hear you....guess maybe it is just a matter of me not really thinking that what I have to say may be of value to someone else.
That may come from my sitch and the fact that it is quite a bit different than most on here.
Also, I feel like I never did a stellar job at following most of the DB principals in general. The change in behavior towards my wife was easy for me...it was an awakening, or an epiphany...whatever you want to call it, it stayed with me, has become a part of me....I truly never find myself having to "work" at that. I had reached the bottom in that respect and there was no where else to go but up.
The rest, GAL..detaching, etc....those things as you well know, were and continue to be issues for me, and in the long run can only help the R if we continue the same path we are on now.
So I guess that's about it....maybe just more "paralysis from analysis"....not wanting to pipe in or say the wrong thing unless I know it is exactly right....LOL....but will keep reading and coming here, and chiming in when it feels right.
