Just a quick question, have you ever really gotten mad at him about all of this, so that he knows it I mean?
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Oh, yeah--I had about a month after the bomb (so basically all of December) and before I discovered DB where I vented a lot. Called OW a whore, tramp or whatever. I yelled, and tried logic, followed him around like a puppy, begging and pleading, lots of ILYs, and basically everything DB says is the wrong thing to do. So I feel I got out the anger that month. Then I got on ADs and discovered DB and my C and I'm the more mellow me of today. I used to get blasted here a few times a bit when I first got here for how I acted!!! I vented about 5% at H I think, and about 95% at the OW, although I feel more like they are both equally skanky currently. I had my hugest biggest blow up the day before my brother's brain surgery. H spent most of the day with OW and I was really angry, depressed, and I 100% let him know it, in front of the kids too. Not my proudest moment... Karen