You are a very sweet person and I wouldn't want you to change that for anything. Your H has betrayed you and your family, there is no reason to be kinder to him than human decency requires.
Just a quick question, have you ever really gotten mad at him about all of this, so that he knows it I mean?
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory