I removed all our guns to a 3rd party when my W was so crazy. I was not afraid for myself, but more of what she might do to herself. My neighbors exH committed suicide a little while back when his fiance called off the wedding. And he was the top ranked enlisted guy in the Portland area military.
Have you thought about getting your son into the cub scouts next year when he is in the first grade? If Dan could be compelled to go with his son to meetings, it is a great place for him to interact with other good fathers and husbands.
