what makes piecing difficult for you?

[Kelli]

That's the worst nightmare, and just won't go away.
So do I know it is true enough to jump ship for? No.
Can I wait and find out? Why not - I'd be raising the kids in the meantime anyway.
Lots can happen in a year (or in my case 5), so why assume a foregone conclusion.
Think in the short term. Let the long term take care of itself.