I think it was flirting you mentioned before. But anyway 15 years together with W and I've still got a lot to learn cos I can flirt with her but I honestly I couldn't tell you what really turns her on, what really is her thing and she's probably waiting for me to discover it naturally in my own time. The DAM in me still has a long way to go in that area, still has a lot to learn. 40+ and still clueless is that a sad admission ?
